You know what the biggest killer of power-exchange relationships is? It's not lies, doms acting like a-holes or emotionally unstable subs. It's complacency. I had a moment this morning when I thought I'd well and truly crossed the never-to-be-crossed-again line that separates the comfortable from the complacent. Master was ravishing me and I let rip... Continue Reading →

Quirks and fingers in my ass

I've stopped scratching long enough to take my finger out of my ass and do a quirky Japan post. You can find it under the tab at the top or here (the latest one is 34-36 in case you were wondering...) Now, if you'll excuse me, I have sleeping that needs to be done.


These last couple of days I've been feeling like I was hit with a tranquilizer dart. I just want to sleep and when I sleep, I just want to sleep more.  I've been sleeping on the bus all the way home, laying down and going to sleep as soon as I come home, then waking... Continue Reading →

Quirks & Dried Squid

Master said he was sorry. But I'm not sure whether he actually meant it or whether he just said it so I wouldn't kiss him with my squid breath. I had the munchies yesterday and after sucking the marrow out of several squid bodies I got all close and personal with Master. He had a... Continue Reading →

I’m on strike

What is it with owners and their ass-hole-ish ways??? Seriously I think that once they get the word (dom) after their name, their asshole level sky-rockets through the roof. I know I wear the shiny thing and I signed up for the slave stuff, but I don't remember agreeing to be owned by an asshole... Continue Reading →

Quirks and Fires

Well, I had a full, busy day. I set fire to the kitchen and watched the last episode of Dexter season 4. What did you do? I have to say that episode was a killer (pun intended) and I wasn't prepared for it at all. Damn...Even though I'm uberly glad that particular character has been... Continue Reading →

Wild kingdom in my bedroom

Sometimes I feel my bedroom should be featured on the discovery channel. Not only does it contain a plethora of habitats from mountainous piles of clothing to a jungle of shoes, but it also harbours a diverse selection of wildlife. I was laying in bed on Tuesday night tossing and turning as I tried in vain... Continue Reading →

The Mole

I'm congratulating myself on not having seen one iota of the olympics. I didn't watch the opening ceremony, have no idea what the medal count is, have no idea what day it is (Day 3, 4?) and I didn't even see the video of that poor guy that died. Just call me "The Mole". I've spent... Continue Reading →

The past returns

Today, I got an email out of the blue from my ex-husband. After not hearing from him for about eight months, I wasn't actually expecting to hear from him again, but today I did and it was the email to end all emails. We used to exchange emails every month or so and I'd call... Continue Reading →

Questions from the deep

Have you ever typed a question into google? I'm betting that if you're one of the 118,000,000 or so hits that google gets a day, you're probably asking it questions like I do. My favourite thing to do when I'm bored out of my brain is to start typing a question into google and see what questions... Continue Reading →


I wonder whether being 'anti-social' is part and parcel of being a slave?   I've noticed on a lot of other blogs that people class themselves as anti-social and I am one of the biggest confirmed recluses ever, so I've had a question in my mind for a while now: Does it go with the territory or is it... Continue Reading →

The Banal

So it was back to work with a bus full of kiddies for me today. I enjoyed my stress-free commute to work during the six weeks of the school holidays so much. It was great to have peace and quiet inside the bus and even better knowing that I would arrive in time to catch... Continue Reading →

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