When the pain only hurts in a bad way

Quite a while ago I wrote a little piece about how being a slave helps you enjoy pain and I've been thinking a bit about what I said way back then. If you're like me and can't be bothered to do the clicky-click if there's no chocolate dangling on the end of your mouse to... Continue Reading →


Just a quickie

I've got two words for you : my boss. I don't even know where to start with him... First, he was annoying the crap out of me, but fortunately I've managed to get used to his annoyingness and it doesn't bother me so much anymore. Secondly, we went out to dinner with him and his... Continue Reading →

Interesting things in my box

It's been a while since I've had an amusing email from those folk over at alt.com containing pics of their best specimens of bdsm folk. ┬áThe first one was reasonably funny, the second one was pretty damn funny, but I think I'm finding this particular gentleman even funnier: I'm not sure whether I'm more confused... Continue Reading →


I've had a few posts with a decidedly Japanese flavour recently. That either means that I'm going through a period of Japan withdrawal (for the 245th time) or I've been watching too many Japanese programmes on my iPod again. I'll let you decide which one it is, but I'll give you the hint that I... Continue Reading →

I had a dream…

...that I was watching Charlie Harper doing bdsm stuff with a chick wearing a geisha hairdo (not the make up, just the hair) who was chained up takatekote style.   He was like a kid on xmas morning using one toy for a couple of minutes and then going onto the next and he was... Continue Reading →


You may or may not have noticed that I changed the look of my blog. I felt it was time for a spring clean, so I've changed the template and the background image. The change-over was pretty painless except for the fact that now my menus don't cascade, so I need to go in and... Continue Reading →

Cream pie

I experienced my first cream pie yesterday. It was quite an exciting moment considering I'd heard so much about them and seen them in so many movies over the years. For some reason or another, we don't really 'do' cream pies in Australia. We have our tarts though...lots and lots of them in fact :)... Continue Reading →

When I’m bored, I amuse myself with…

Quizzes: Created by Oatmeal Kinetic Typography: Top ten lists I especially like the top ten videos of people stuck in an elevator (that guy with diarrhoea is just sad...) and the top ten toughest athletic challenges (serious bragging rights and cool t-shirts involved with these...) Toilet paper origami The dragon is awesome, but I'll stick... Continue Reading →

One wedding and a funeral

That title pretty much sums up my week. I had a friend get married on Sunday, on that auspicious date of 10.10.2010 - along with ten million other couples it seems. I remember back in 2000 when I was into my second year of engagement and suddenly there were all these whisperings from his side... Continue Reading →

This and that

M and I had a week full of job applications and assorted aches and pains. I applied for a job that in the best analogue Japanese way required me to actually snail mail in my resume and a cover letter and M had an interview for another position on Friday and applied for several others... Continue Reading →

Is my hentai, your hentai?

When I'm looking for porn to push my buttons, one of the biggest problems I have is which 'category' to look under. Of course I tend to start out at the 'BDSM' category, but there seems to be a disturbing trend for anything with a bit of chain draped over the bed or a bit... Continue Reading →

Dear M

The art of letter writing is a lost art, is it not? (Actually the art of hand-writing is so lost on me I can barely write a shopping list anymore...) So I thought I'd 'write' you a letter!! Yay!! After my wild-kingdom day yesterday where I saw a rabbit on the bus on the way... Continue Reading →

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